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Will be in Alberta

November 19th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Personal Matters

Calgary panorama

My flight to Calgary, Alberta (Canada) leaves at 2:00 p.m. Eastern Standard Time. There I will be having fun at the National Seminar for debate, a noncompetitive conference for debaters all across the country.

Friday is our recreational day, when we will be visiting Banff and the hot springs pool there. Who knows? I might even have a chance to visit Lake Louise.

Lake Louise

I will aim to post Twitter and blog posts every day, in the rare occasion that one of you may actually be interested.

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My list for November 17

November 17th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Personal Matters

Here’s my list for today of things for which I am grateful.

  • food
  • stress management
  • light!

Am I feeling happier yet? Not really. In fact, I’ve been feeling more and more stressed out lately. In any case, that’ll be fixed by Tuesday of next week.

My Twitter updates are still not being synchronized to my blog, but hopefully that’ll be fixed with the next update of Twitter Tools.

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My Twitter Updates for 2008-11-14

November 14th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Personal Matters

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Things for which I am grateful

November 14th, 2008 | 3 Comments | Posted in Personal Matters

Linked handsM.W. recently suggested to me that writing down the things for which I am grateful will lead to some sense of happiness. I’m willing to try this out, because there is a sound psychological basis for doing so; this activity forces a person to realize all of the positive things that exist in the world around them.

I also realize that, perhaps you aren’t particularly interested in my personal life (although I’d point out that that is what many blogs focus on). I will return to posting other interesting things since I have nearly exhausted this topic.

It wouldn’t be too convenient to make a new blog post every day or even every week for this topic, so I’m going to place some of them on Twitter. Follow me on Twitter (http://twitter.com/frederickding) or check this blog (since my Twitter updates are automatically re-posted here daily).

My three-item list for today (November 14, 2008):

  • a warm, safe, and hospitable home
  • an intelligent and thoughtful mind
  • friends who care

I really wouldn’t mind if you decided to share a few of the things for which you are grateful, either by commenting here or by signing up for Twitter and letting me know about you.

ADDENDUM: of course some things will need to be kept private. But even the private things will be posted, except under lock and key.
;)

ADDENDUM 2: here are my lists for November 15 and 16:

  • life
  • liberty
  • health
  • friends who are smart
  • a Macbook Pro
  • friends who care too much

My Twitter Updates for 2008-11-13

November 13th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Personal Matters

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A Thorough Treatise on the Nature of Friendship

November 13th, 2008 | 4 Comments | Posted in Personal Matters

“Man has an eternal longing for companionship.”

With that line I begin my analysis of friendship. Indeed, my views are not entirely common, and it is my disagreement with the views of others that motivates me to write this philosophical examination of close relationships. In the following text, I will cover at least these topics:

  • What is friendship?
  • Motivations
  • Influences
  • Characteristics vs. causes vs. effects

Let’s get started. Visit page 2 to continue reading. EDIT: paging removed.
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My Twitter Updates for 2008-11-10

November 10th, 2008 | No Comments | Posted in Personal Matters
  • This weekend is so boring. The news is slow and there’s lots of work to do. #

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Analyzing Shifts in Human Behaviour Part II

November 10th, 2008 | 2 Comments | Posted in Personal Matters

I promised to finish the previous Analyzing Shifts in Human Behaviour article, so here it is. Actually, this Part II post doesn’t even come close to completing any analysis of human behaviour, but at least I can finish my talk about ‘variables’.

Anyhow… previously:

Additionally, some examples show that religious/ideological/theological values are often applied to other aspects of life:

  • Use of time — I have rarely encountered a person devoted to their faith who does not spend considerable time developing or spreading their faith; however, if one’s values are much less religious in nature, and more ideological — for instance, if one is supports abortion on scientific grounds — it is nevertheless possible that one does not devote much of one’s time to promoting one’s cause

It should be irrefutable by now that these variables are demonstrated visibly in every person’s external behaviour. Now let’s analyze how these variables gain their values, and what impacts those variables.

Three Main Types of Influences

I believe that every person’s personality is developed with these three influences:

  1. Environmental — the circumstances in which a person develops is a crucial influence on the shaping of one’s values and one’s personality.
  2. Intrapersonal — one’s values are all interlinked, and strong values (like religion) can shape the development of other variables (like music preferences).
  3. Interpersonal — it is evident that one’s close friends and family all play roles in the development of one’s character.

Let’s take the example of musical preference and see how these three types of influences affect one’s musical tastes:

  • Environmental: suppose a child grows up in a Chinese ethnic enclave. The result is inevitably that the child becomes accustomed to various aspects of Chinese culture, including music. Now, suppose another child grows up in a higher-class family in a mostly Caucasian neighbourhood and goes to a school that is not racially diverse. This child is not likely to appreciate world music, or specifically appreciate Chinese music.
  • Intrapersonal: many devout Christians listen to music with lyrics that reinforce and resonate with their beliefs. Those with substantial musical education are also more likely to develop a special appreciation for professional musicians; those that study classical music are also more likely to develop a classical taste.
  • Interpersonal: teens that spend a significant amount of time together experience the curious phenomena of ‘bonding’, ‘persuasion’, and ‘conversion’. Bonding establishes the rapport that is needed for someone’s persuasion to be taken seriously, leading to the conversion. For instance, a teenager whose best friend is a fanatical listener of heavy metal may learn to accept, if not like (over time), similar genres.

What is immediately evident is that there must be a fine balance of these three types to lead to a certain result in the variable. It is impossible to predict which type takes precedence if two or three clash, but it is possible to ‘engineer’ (as it were) the influences to generate a certain desired variable. (One blog reader and commentator correctly predicted this.)

It is sometimes easier to generate certain variable values than others, and it is often easier to influence someone at an early age.

Let’s see what it would take for deeply devout, Christian parents to influence a child’s religious values:
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